Why Salesmen Make Me Angry

I’m normally a calm, easy-going type of person, but I must confess that salesmen make me angry. They disturb me when I’m busy, or worse, when I’m trying to relax. They push their product into my face in an aggressive manner, and then become aggrieved when I don’t want to buy it!

I Don’t Want to Know

I’m not interested in their product. Even if I was I wouldn’t buy it on my doorstep, and the fact that they’ve disturbed and annoyed me just makes me determined never to buy from that company. For every sale that they win, how many more potential customers do they lose for ever?

Why Salesmen Make Me Angry

It’s All About Them

Doorstep salesman have got it all wrong. They call at their convenience, not mine. They are pushy, aggressive, and focused on themselves and the sale that they want. To them I’m just a ‘prospect’, a way of making money, a means to reaching their sales targets. They don’t care about me as a person, or care about what I really want or need. So this is why I hate cold-calling.

I’ve Heard It All Before

The fake crocodile smiles and tired platitudes of the doorstep salesman don’t fool me. Don’t they realise that I’ve heard it all before? So don’t ask me how I am, I know that you don’t really care. Don’t tell me you’re not selling anything, I know that you are. Don’t talk about the weather, you’re just wasting my time.

Get It Over With Quickly

If you really must cold-call, because your boss insists on it, or your ideas on selling are ten years out of date, at least get to the point quickly. Then I can say the inevitable ‘no‘ and get on with my life. By the way, doing it over the phone isn’t any better!

How Could You Sell to Me?

On the other hand you could not cold-call in the first place. What are the alternatives? Attract me by being excellent at what you do; advertise where I will see it stating why I need you and what problem of mine you can solve; send a letter which I can read at my own time and convenience; or be so amazing at what you do, that everyone I know is talking about you.

In the businesses that I run, 99% of our referrals are generated by recommendation. Why is this? Because our number one priority is being the best at what we do.

What’s the Best Way to Sell?

In Jeffrey Gitomer’s ‘Little Red Book of Selling’ [UK Amazon Link] [US Amazon Link], Gitomer states “People don’t like to be sold…but they love to buy.”  He goes on to say that the question “‘Why do people buy?’ is a thousand times more important than ‘How do I sell?'”

If only more salesmen read Gitomer’s books instead of pestering me on my doorstep, then I might end up by actually calling them!

Author: Lynne Mashhadi

Lynne Mashhadi is co-Founder of the Inspiration Zone. She is also a Partner in Design Inspiration and the Founder of Clutter.co.uk. Lynne is an experienced writer and content curator. She is known as The Clutter Expert by many people and as a talented freelance writer by others. She is a businesswoman and mother of 3 children who wouldn't like to be called children any more.

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